Guy Can't Cum

Dear Gay Bigfoot,

This is a first for me. I've never been with a guy who doesn't cum. The man I'm with can stay hard for a very long time, but he just doesn't cum. Why? At first I thought it was my fault. But he says he has always been like this. He says no other woman has complained...but give me a break. Should he be concerned? Am I wrong in thinking he is missing out? Also, he really isn't into porn. Is this normal for a guy? Need your input quick.

-Guy Can't Cum

Dear Guy Can't Cum,

this is a strange one...even for me! Who doesn't love to cum? Seriously! Who knows, maybe he's really a gay man but doesn't quite know it yet. You should try showing him some man on man action porn and see if he likes it. If he does, well...then there's your answer! Or you could try getting him a powerful massager. I know a lot of people get off on having their naughty bits vibrated, so you always try that. If none of this works, then I wouldn't worry about it anymore. As long as you are getting off, then that's all that matters! If all else fails, try sticking your finger up his ass. Who knows, it's worth a shot!